Ravi Zacharias once said (probably more than once) that every human goes through 4 struggles: origin, meaning, morality, and destiny. Or, as I like to say, “where am I from, why am I here, what do I do now, and where am I going?” Not one human being in history has not thought about, and struggled with, all 4 of those questions. No matter how intellectually proficient we may be, no matter what our faith system or lack thereof, we’ve all struggled with those questions and concepts. Its a fact of human nature. One might say the very fact we struggle with those questions is evidence enough that we’re not simply formed from random chance. Only a Creator could adequately explain all 4 of those struggles.
So we look at love. The Bible explains it like this:
4 Love (A)is patient, love is kind and (B)is not jealous; love does not brag and is not (C)arrogant, 5 does not act unbecomingly; it (D)does not seek its own, is not provoked, (E)does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6 (F)does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but (G)rejoices with the truth; 7 [a](H)bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
What’s funny is that people from all faiths and no faiths love to use this verse in their wedding ceremonies, yet the divorce rate is over 50%. But when a human actually looks at this description of love and he/she are honest with themselves, they’ll see that what is being described is entirely beyond our human nature. While atheists like to point to an inherited sense of obligation humans have toward one another in a tribal sense, the above definition of love doesn’t even enter the equation. Even in marriage, where this verse is used and abused over and over again in ceremonies, love only goes so far. Everyone has a line that once its crossed, they end the marriage. This is the exact opposite of how God intended marriage to be however. The Bible repeatedly even refers to the relationship between Jesus and His Church as a “marriage”. Have we humans not repeatedly crossed the line? Yet does God “divorce” us? Just the opposite.
So why is it that in society today, love is seen as some emotion? You hear it all the time, its about feelings, warm fuzzy feelings. Problem is, no matter how “in love” with someone you may feel at the time, those feelings are here one day and gone the next. Then what? Love is a choice. We have to choose to make a conscious decision to love someone in the way being described here. Its the only way love makes sense. If we simply adhere to our human nature every time, those “feelings”, that’s how you get a divorce rate over 50%. That is how you get broken relationship after broken relationship, because every relationship is based on how someone feels at the time. That isn’t love, that is pure selfishness. Yet love exists. In an amoral, meaningless universe formed from a random event of time, matter, and chance, love has no place and cannot exist. But in a Creation, where beings were formed with a design, a purpose, and are born with longing for meaning, worth, and acceptance, love not only makes sense, but its required.